For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have One who has been tempted in every way, just as we are, yet He did not sin. – Hebrews 4:15
The memories stored in our minds determine our view of God and other people around us. They even determine our view of ourselves.
There are scars buried in our minds from a long time ago and they can still hurt and cause us pain, sometimes they even cause anger. This means that we are not healed from what happened. Many scars continue to give distress in your mind: men who were humiliated, women who were beaten, children who were always told that they were stupid and not good for anything. Many people have personality disorders or behavioral problems due to incest or rape.
God is able and wants to heal you
Maybe you feel unworthy and sometimes you even think to put an end to your life. You may not believe that Jesus really loves you and wants to heal you. You really want to move on, but you are unable to and get frustrated. Can God really heal me? Yes, God is able to and will heal you!
The Holy Spirit can come to the place of the deepest wounds. He is able to do this immediately. However, it will only work with your help. God wants to be your Counselor and your Psychiatrist because He is the High Priest who sympathizes with you. He looks far beyond your mask and understands you. This is what you should do:
1) Come to Jesus;
2) Open your heart to the Holy Spirit;
3) Look at your problems;
4) and stop blaming others.
Do you want healing? Or do you only want to talk about your sickness and problem? Forgive everyone who is involved in your problem and forgive yourself. Surrender everything to the Holy Spirit. He will heal you emotionally.